It happened in the summer of 1993. It wasn’t a difficult decision.
It was always uncomfortable around the table in the company’s cafeteria. I had already developed a reputation for being picky, people had suspicions. The real challenge came when we were sitting for our Christmas dinner, as my mom cut me a piece of the juicy pork roast I couldn’t hold it any longer. With trembling voice I blurt it out right then and there, to my family’s utmost shock:
“Mom… I am a vegetarian”.
In a country of unapologetic carnivores, where the vernacular is peppered with witty references to how delicious meat is, it can sometimes be very hard to be a vegetarian.
My father, of course, never accepted it. He thinks vegetarians can be “converted” back to the rightful path of the meat-eaters. The rest of my family left me alone. My friends nicely offered a vegetarian choice when they invited me, and my mom jokingly suggested “slaughtering an eggplant” for dinner when I visited.
Eating out, however, was a real challenge. When telling a waiter that I was a vegetarian (crossing my fingers and hoping that there would be something I could eat somewhere in the kitchen) it was not rare for they to stare at me like I had an arm sticking out of my forehead.
“But you eat chicken, don’t you?”.
“Did that chicken grow from a tree?”
After a few months of a total ban on meat I decided I had to compromise, or else I would become an outcast of society. I decided to at least eat fish (and the occasional serrano). Now when I tell people “I don’t eat meat… but I eat fish” they look at me in a different way: Like I am not a complete loon.
This post is sponsored by Holland House. I have received compensation and products to create this recipe, but these opinions are 100% mine.
- ¼ head of cabbage, shredded
- 1 cup tomato, diced
- 1 cup tomato sauce
- 1 small onion, cut into strips
- ⅓ cup Holland House white wine vinegar
- 1 clove of garlic, crushed
- 1 pepper, cut into strips
- 3 tablespoons olive oil
- Heat oil in a pot (medium heat).
- Cook the onions and garlic until the onions become transparent.
- Add the pepper and tomatoes. Cook over low heat for 3 minutes.
- Add the tomato sauce.
- Add the cabbage, vinegar and a ⅓ cup of water and simmer over very low heat until the cabbage is tender.
- Season with salt and pepper to taste.